Bras are slightly less expensive than usual right now

Brastop and Large Cup Lingerie both have sales on at present, with some pretty serious discounts on lingerie, swimwear, pyjamas, etc. Large Cup Lingerie also does free worldwide shipping. Brastop charges about NZ$30 to ship to New Zealand, but this weekend they’ll do free worldwide shipping for orders over £60 (coupon code WDFREE). Both shops sell bras in band sizes 28-46 (NZ/Aus sizes 6-24) and cup sizes D-K.

Here’s my advice on buying bras online - I plan to make a more up-to-date version of this post soon. In the meantime, the askbox is always open if you want more advice or information.







Now THIS is a bold lingerie ad.

When the star model for Forever Yours Lingerie was diagnosed with cancer, the brand decided to stick with her.

Tom Megginson at The Ethical Admanapproves:

“So, while American Eagle is getting virtual hugs and high fives for its commitment to not photoshopping its typical-looking models,  elsewhere there are brands and models who are willing to show us what it really takes to do something about the fashion industry’s body image problem.”

Read the rest

All I can do is


ETA: no, wait, hold up, stop the presses. There’s another thing I can do and that’s shop their store. You probably can too, because CHECK OUT THEIR BRA MATRIX



Reblogging because look at that size range!!!! And also because representation is important.

Those bras look awesome!

hey taraljc  I think your rack should get to know their bra matrix.

Why can’t all lingerie shops be like this? Seriously, look at the range of sizes and styles they carry!

They even ship to New Zealand!

“An ill-fitting bra is a serious medical issue as it can contribute to numerous negative health outcomes, such as upper limb neural symptoms and deep bra furrows caused by excessive strap pressure; neck and back pain, as well as poor posture and exercise-induced breast discomfort. These symptoms can be so severe as to force women with large breasts to seek reduction mammoplasty or inhibit these women from participating in physical activity. Interestingly, correctly fitted, supportive bras have been found to alleviate up to 85% of these symptoms, allowing women to exercise in greater comfort and reducing the need for breast reduction surgery.”

McGee, D.R., and Steele, J.R., ‘Optimising breast support in female patients through correct bra fit. A cross-sectional study’, Journal of Science and Medicine in Sport 13 (2010), 568-572. In-text citations have been removed from the quote for readability.

I already discussed the paper here, but this quote is important enough to get its own post. This is one of the many reasons why good bras are a feminist issue.

NB: although the authors of the article use “women” to refer to people with breasts, not everyone with breasts identifies as a woman.


Anonymous asked:

thoughts on bendon?


Bendon specifically, or the various brands sold in Bendon stores? Either way, I can’t say I’m a fan.

Bendon (specifically) makes some lovely bras, but in a pretty narrow range of sizes, which means I usually can’t wear any of them! I see that they now have a sports bra that goes up to a G cup, but one style that might possibly fit me really isn’t good enough. Some of the other brands they sell are a bit better in terms of size range: Pleasure State, Evollove, Elle McPherson and Fayreform all have multiple bras in DD+ sizes. Unfortunately none of them seem to work for me.

Part of the problem is still with sizing. Pleasure State and Evollove have bras “available to G cup”, but they both skip the FF cup size, meaning that their “G cup” bras fit more like other brands’ FF cups. In my experience, many Evollove bras also run small in the cups, making them even less accommodating of large breasts. I find the fit of Pleasure State bras to be quite variable, and I can sometimes fit their plunge bras in 10G. They make some beautiful lingerie, and since this beautiful lingerie occasionally fits me, I don’t disregard them completely.

Elle and Fayreform do include FF cups, which is a good start. Some Fayreform styles even go up to a J cup. However, neither brand works for me. Most of the DD+ styles made by Elle McPherson are flimsy little lace things that (in my opinion) just aren’t supportive enough for everyday wear. I also find that the lace can be a bit itchy. Their padded bras are definitely more supportive (and sometimes very pretty), but they just seem to be the wrong shape for my breasts.

I really dislike Fayreform. Their bras fit me but I just don’t like the styles: almost all full coverage, bland colours, unflattering shapes. I feel like they’re telling me "Your boobs are too big for public decency! They must be TOTALLY COVERED UP with antique upholstery fabric! You shall never look pretty or cute or sexy again!" 

Maybe I’m being a bit uncharitable here. I have occasionally seen Fayreform bras that look quite nice. But I could forgive even ugly bras if they were decently supportive, and my experience with Fayreform bras is that they aren’t. I actually own one: I bought it because it was cheap and at the time I had literally no bras that fitted me properly. Wearing it reduces my cleavage to the point of non-existence and makes my boobs point out to my sides instead of forward. In terms of support, it’s better than going without a bra, but really not great.

My OTHER problem with Bendon is that they still use the plus-four fitting system, which consistently puts people in bras with bands that are too big and cups that are too small to provide proper support. This can lead to significant health problems.

Sorry, this turned into a bit of a rant.



Since bras are a part of beauty culture, they are a feminist issue and I’m not sure why it doesn’t get discussed a lot.

Oh wait, yes I do. It’s because mainstream sex pozzie third wavers would much rather sweep the “bra burning feminist” trope under the rug than actually challenge narratives telling women that our bodies are insufficient. 。◕‿◕。

Of course women shouldn’t be shamed for choosing not to wear bras, and bras shouldn’t be seen as a necessity for being fully dressed in a socially acceptable way. Those things are shit.

HOWEVER there are a lot of people who wear bras for utilitarian reasons, whether out of their own feelings of modesty, or to mitigate breast/and or back pain, or even because (like me) they feel safer with them than without them in public, and none of those things should be shamed either. I’ve spoken to several friends who, like me, are sexual abuse survivors and who feel (as I do) that going without a bra in public feels like walking into a war zone without armor. It feels exposed, it feels vulnerable and unsafe. For many years during and after my abuse I wore only very ugly, very big, very utilitarian bras. Bras that pushed my chest down and de-emphasized my curves. I wore big huge t-shirts and sweatshirts over them, hoping that no one would notice I had breasts to be attracted to. And I was miserable. I’ve gotten to a point now where I can more often wear clothes that make me feel comfortable and pretty without panicking. But I still can’t go without a bra in public without feeling like I have a giant target painted on my chest. And none of those things are my fault. These are things that were done TO me. And I will not be shamed for the ways in which I cope.

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Thin Privilege is bra shopping


Recently went out with a friend and her cousin, we all went to a bra shop my friend complained

”Urg 32GG is such a hard size to get! Haha, big boob problems”

So I said

”yeah I know how you feel about big boobs haha it’s almost impossible to get a 46C anywhere!”

Then her cousin spoke up

”Your boobs don’t count as big because they’re fat”.

I went silent, but holy damn. My boobs are suddenly not boobs at all just because I’m fat? C isn’t that small and 46 certainly isn’t either! I honestly felt super offended. While my friend complained that finding her size was like the hardest thing on earth ever (and we did find her size pretty easily!) I knew we wouldn’t get my size and I’d have to order online or get an extender.

Thin privilege is people don’t discountifying parts of your body simply because they are ”fat”

I’m still here!

I know this blog has been pretty dormant for a while. There are several reasons for that, the main one being that I was without a computer for a while.

I don’t know how regularly I’m going to be able to post. I have a long list of topics I WANT to discuss, but every time I sit down to write all my words escape me. It’s extremely frustrating.

I’m also still not sure what direction I want to take for this blog in the future. I’d really welcome feedback and ideas. Here are some things I’ve considered posting:

  • bra reviews
  • grumpy rants about not being able to find anything in my size
  • analysis of some of the wider societal issues around how we view bras and breasts
  • pictures of cool-looking bras that are available in a range of sizes
  • (more) fitting advice, including advice for different body types
  • posts relating to breast health and breast cancer
  • more about body image and wanting to feel pretty
  • something about how living in New Zealand makes finding affordable cheap bras even harder
  • something about the science of how bras are actually supposed to work
  • general feminist-y stuff not directly related to bras


Ever been frustrated that you can’t support stores you love because they don’t carry things that fit you? Ever been sad that shops never seem to order enough of your size of clothing, or design a range that includes your size and shape?

You are really not alone.

The Clothes Calling Card Campaign is for you to politely point out to people who design and order clothing that you would happily give them your money in exchange for clothing that fits, and to give them an indication of the demand for sizing ranges they don’t currently stock.

This is a great campaign founded by a group of Wellington women. I plan to take some of these cards with me next time I go bra shopping.

The campaign also has a tumblr here.


Many of my friends and I battle with the issue many busty girls do; where to get pretty bras? Plus could they be purchased without needing to spend all your money?

Australian eBay store PlusSizeBras is a place every busty girl should visit! It’s good, it’s extremely cheap and the customer service works. 

They simply don’t have just big bras, but they have variety of them; stripes, dots, different flower patterns, different mixed colour, laces ect. Not just the boring bras which make you look like you’d have a baby for breast feeding at home (no offence for mums! Or babies!)

Want some pictures? Here you go:


Hmm, look at these basic yet pretty darling bras with 12,44$ (AUS)


Or is animal pattern more you? Gosh, you really need at least one pair of white bras. Both darlings are 8.87$ (AUS), together less than 18$!


Something a bit naughty yet extremely cute, only 14$ (AUS)!


There’s prettiness and some damn good support with 13$ (AUS).


Black, transparent lace, grrr. Your drawer just got hotter with 8$ (USD)

What’s the best catch? They’re extremely cheap with very, very, very low international shipping fee! The prices start from 8$ (AUS). Instead of spending 50$ for one pair, you can get 5 pairs of bras from PlusSizeBras! Extremely handy for people with low incomes like students or for those who have fed up with bra prices overall.

Wait? Cheap bras can’t be good? Nor fitting?

Of course, there’s always a change that the bra doesn’t fit you, or it’s somehow bad. However, I have had only positive experiences with this shop. The bras I have gotten - except one - were very supportive, felt comfortable on and for the first time ever I knew how it feels when you’re not constantly aware of your boobs or bra!

(Besides, when the price is low, you can try the bras without fear - if it doesn’t fit, you won’t loose much money. You can give the bras forward to someone else. Maybe it fits your friend(s). Or perhaps you want to donate them to charity.)

I’m size 38DD/85E lady and this store has simply saved my life.

The bustier you are, the more important good, supportive bras are for your health and comfort. 

Unfortunately they don’t seem to have anything in my size, but this still looks pretty cool!

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